Agapé Therapeutic Riding Center

Love and a Horse Named Whiskers

"If someone had told me seven years ago that my son would someday ride a horse, I wouldn't have believed them. For those of you who know my son, Clay, you know that his physical limitations keep him from even holding his head up on his own. How is it possible for him to sit like a small prince atop a beautiful chocolate brown horse? Usually when I tell people that Clay's first grade class began therapeutic horseback riding at Agapé Therapeutic Riding Center near Cicero, Indiana a few weeks ago, the first questions is, "Do they have a special seat for him?" The answer to that is yea, although, I'll have to admit I don't remember much about the seat that held him.

What I do remember is this: Four strangers helped Clay ride the horse. One woman led the horse slowly around a circle while three others held him up as they walked alongside "Whiskers", a slow, gentle, serious horse. One man really made an impression on me. Walking backwards the entire half-an-hour, he held his hand under Clay's chin and periodically pushed his helmet back so he could see better, all the while speaking joyful words to him. On one of the coldest days of the year, there was a chill in the riding arena. But this man broke into a sweat and pulled off his sweater while the rest of us shivered in our coats and gloves. That's how hard he was working to help Clay ride. Or you could say that's how much he was expressing love to a stranger. 'I don't think this kid wants to get off!" he exclaimed joyfully across the barn as Clay beamed and smiled.
The hero of this story, Whiskers


I wonder about the persons who originally came up with the idea of therapeutic horseback riding. People probably thought that idea was pretty nutty and maybe even dangerous. I can imagine this person being laughed at or mocked. I guess love must have come through. There are organizations like Agapé all over the country. The program for Clay and all the other special children is possible because of around two hundred loving volunteers, who partner with the staff, and the horses.

So what holds a boy like Clay up on a horse? At the risk of sounding sentimental, I think that love holds him up.

-- Christy Boyer, Anderson, Indiana